PP – Review of Circle Round
Posted by Morrighan on October 1, 2000 at 8:55 am | Last modified: October 1, 2000 8:55 amBy Jodi Lee
~Originally Published October 2000~
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Circle Round – Raising Children in Goddess Traditions
by: Starhawk – Diane Baker – Anne Hill
I have been parenting for many years, not just with my own children, but also being a substitute mother for my much younger brothers when they visit. For more years than I care to remember, I have looked for a pagan book on parenting, and the stages of life. I think I even went so far as to post on various newsgroups in my frustration. And I believe it was on one of those newsgroups that someone told me he thought Starhawk had a parenting book on the market.
Well, that message began a three month search in local bookstores. No one seemed to have it, and of course without travelling to the city there was no one who would order it in.
Off we went to the city. Looked here, looked there, finally found a copy in the quaint shop – Prairie Sky (if you are ever in the city of Winnipeg, Manitoba – this is the place to visit for friendly pagan/new-age atmosphere in a small shop). I suppose I could have asked Chapters or Barnes & Noble to order one in, but I have the patience of a two year old, so I hunted instead (Grin).
On the trip home, my hands kept opening the book, almost of their own volition. I refuse to read in a car – nasty bouts of car sickness have ensued from my addiction to the written word. But, there I was, flipping through pages and picking out the odd bit to read. I was fascinated! First of all, Bantam had done the world a service by using toned paper (a kind of creamy color) and a dark green ink for illustrations and print. Not only is it better on the eyes in a car, but also if one happens to be reading under the bright sun, or by a lamp. Getting back on track however, this is the first book I had read that is the collaborative effort of three women, who all seemingly agreed with each other, or at least managed to keep from storming out in a huff. That amazes me in itself!
The book that has come from these three remarkable women has given myself, and my children many moments of happiness, as I read the stories to them, work on a craft with them, sing to them (ack – ok, perhaps they don’t enjoy listening to mommy’s terribly off-key singing). With wonderful explanations of each area of a Goddess Tradition, to the Sun and Moon cycles, to a full area for each Sabbat – including activities, songs, crafts and stories. Think that’s it? Guess again!
Following the Sabbat chapters, comes the Life Cycle. The stages of life are covered here, from birth to coming of age, and beyond. The Circle of Elements covers all that is contained in the Pentacle – Earth, Air, Fire, Water and Spirit.
This book has changed a lot of the ways I have dealt with questions from children, my own and others. Previously, I would stammer and not be sure of what to say, and now, I can give them answers to questions asked in terms they understand a little easier. I love it! If you don’t already have it – go out and beg, borrow or buy it!
Moon Soup
fr.page 66 / Moon CycleUse your favorite recipe to make black bean soup. Its dark color serves as the “night sky”.
To make “moons” and “stars” float on the soup “sky”, beat yogurt or sour cream (about a quarter cup per serving) until it’s the consistency of heavy cream, thinning it with milk if necessary. Pouring carefully from a cup with a spout, dribble crescent moons near the sides of each bowl. Accent with tiny drops for stars.
For a full moon, pour the yogurt or sour cream into a spiral. With the back of a spoon, stroke the spiral gently until the white liquid has blended together to form a floating moon.
For a vegan moon soup, slice thin pieces of pale soy cheese, then with a cookie cutter or sharp knife cut out moon and star shapes and float them in the soup.
Above quote used by permission granted for reviews
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Jodi Lee – is a freelance writer/editor living in southern Manitoba, Canada.
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Posted by Morrighan on at 8:51 am | Last modified: October 1, 2000 8:51 amBy Jodi Lee
(warning – contains heavy sarcasm)
~Originally Published October 2000 – re-written and recently re-published in newWitch Magazine, Issue #07. Republish not permitted.~
I know I’ll likely lose my happy standing with Llewellyn publishers over this review, however, I cannot in good conscience, smile and choke out the words “It’s wonderful”. In fact, I won’t.
When the card came in the mail letting me know it would be available for review, I thought, ok, here’s a chance to actually see the Kit, and form an honest opinion on it. That was not to be, at least, not for a while. It seems the Kit was already back-ordered! Advance copies and review copies had already taken out the first available sets.
“Hmmm, maybe it’s better than we all thought.” WRONG!
Two months after having requested it, the Kit arrived in it’s little envelope. I rushed home from the post office before trudging off to do the mundane tasks of everyday life, simply to take a brief look at the contents of that package. I ripped the tear seal, and slid the book into my hands. Pretty as it is, and it IS pretty, I began to smell cheapness…Now don’t get me wrong, cheap can be good…Goddess knows I have spent hours searching for great deals on books and clothes and what-have-you. But this piece is going to cost American youth (that IS the target market after all) $24.95. In Canada however, it’s been priced anywhere from $34.95 to a whopping $45.00.
I have wandered off track now haven’t I? Ah, the mental wanderings of a witch on a soapbox! ;-)
The “box” the Kit is in, is actually an open-backed container, meaning the enclosed book serves as a back. The cover of the “box” will fold down once the book is removed, and lo! It’s an altar! Not just any altar, but one made of plastic, with little moon cycle symbols pressed into it. A shlocky, and I don’t like to put down any jewelry people, but this is the epitome of the word, pentacle is enclosed – not silver, but painted soft metal. The charm bag is pretty, but not really functional for anything more than small amulets. The Golden “Wish” cord is another bit of un-necessary fluff. The crystal, well, let’s just say I held that crystal in my hand, and I didn’t think, nor do I think now, that it’s quartz as claimed. It doesn’t feel right, and after months of working with the most energetic and beautiful crystals available (ok, as far as I am concerned they are – see my store site) and having compared the the SRW crystal with one from the mines in Arkansas; after describing the SRW crystal to many people online, some of whom are constantly working with minerals, none of us think this is quartz. Many think it’s cut glass crystal, but without taking it in for analysis, I can’t be sure. And the book – well, I’d rather not write a book on the in-consistencies and trivialities of that book.
The only saving grace in the entire package was the coins that were enclosed. One Goddess/God coin, and one for divination. They were up to “snuff” for me…(grin) I do believe they are the only real useful tool in the whole kit, and I hope that kids that are purchasing the kit will look for more useful ways of employing them.
SRW may have her fans, but as far as I am concerned, “If I don’t do it, someone else will” excuse for putting out the Teen Witch Kit just does not cut it with me, nor with many others.
I tried being objective with this – I did. But it’s hard to do when something is so mass produced and quite obviously for profit only. Definitely two thumbs down…
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Jodi Lee – is a freelance writer/editor living in southern Manitoba, Canada.
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Categories: Pagan Parenting, Reviews | Comments Off | PermalinkPP – Samhain With The Kids
Posted by Morrighan on at 8:27 am | Last modified: October 12, 2006 8:42 amBy Jodi Lee
~Originally Published October 2000~
(see author/copyright info below)
Please note that our familial circumstances have changed since this article was written. I have removed the paternal influence’s name from the article at my daughters’ request.
As Samhain approaches, we will be delving into the Sabbats area of the book “Circle Round” to prepare for our circle and celebration. This is the first time my children will be joining me in circle for a Sabbat. I feel that they have asked often enough what mommy does out there, and they have enough understanding of the concept of my path to help celebrate and honor our ancestors. But, in the meantime (between now and Samhain), this is what I have planned…
This will seriously cut into their “trick or treat” time, as I celebrate on the 31st of October rather than November 1st. Instead of travelling to their grandmother’s that night, we’ll go the next night, with the girls in their costumes and painted faces, and stay home. They can go out with their dad while I stay home and pass out treats and prepare for our circle. Once they get home, it’ll be circle time. They are excited already, and I am glad they are, as I would love to have them follow in my path (although I don’t hold any illusions that they will…they are just as stubborn and independant as I was ;-) )
Firstly will be our “Dumb Supper”. Our table will be set with a place for my cousin Ollie, who passed away in her mid-eighties last fall. She’s been gone almost a year, and I can still feel her here every day – she gave me the courage at 12 years old to go follow the path my heart went down. And I did, and I will be forever grateful to her.
We will eat our dinner of soup and soda bread in silence, honoring all those who have gone before us. Once the meal is finished, and IF the weather holds nice, we’ll head outside to my ritual space. My husband will light the fire, while I explain again what Samhain means to my path, and myself, and tell the girls a short story.
Care will be the one to sweep the circle (this is not something I always do – but for their first circle, we’ll be going all out), and Rhiannon will set up the candles. All four of us will stand within the circle as I call the winds and the ancestors, and cast the circle. The girls can then speak their minds, if they wish to tell a story, or thank the ancestors, or just sing a song, they can. However they wish to celebrate the New Year, and honor the past, is fine with me.
Rhiannon has asked if we can light candles for their twin sisters, whom we lost in premature birth a year and a half before Rhiannon was born. I have told her that this is a wonderful idea, and she has picked out two tiny pink candles. Care doesn’t seem interested in the candles, she wants to be more active in the casting of the circle (read “Children Are Amazing!” for an explanation of that girl…) and the herbs and crystals I’ll be leaving out for the old ones. She has asked if she can pick them out, and I agreed.
Finally, we’ll have “cookies” and apple juice, which is our “kid friendly” cakes and wine. Rhiannon will pass the cookies, and Care will pass the juice, each leaving a generous portion for the old ones. A moment of silence for those who have gone before, and then we’ll release the circle.
I haven’t decided yet if they should stay in their costumes throughout all of this or not – Rhiannon wants to be a “real” witch again this year (black pointy hat, green face, wart and all..sheeeesh…) and Care wants to be a gnome (ever see the movie Merlin, with Martin Short as Flick? again, I say sheeesh). Perhaps it’s appropriate?
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Jodi Lee – is a freelance writer/editor living in southern Manitoba, Canada.
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