{"id":660,"date":"2005-12-30T13:09:45","date_gmt":"2005-12-30T19:09:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sacredtriskele.net\/blog\/?p=21"},"modified":"2005-12-30T13:09:45","modified_gmt":"2005-12-30T19:09:45","slug":"21-days-later","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/sacredtriskele.net\/?p=660","title":{"rendered":"21 Days Later&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Wow, I didn&#8217;t think it&#8217;d been this long since I&#8217;d updated the blog. I&#8217;m actually a bit shocked and appalled.<\/p>\n<p>Or something&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Anyhoo, the one thing I was being MUM about in the posts just before I went silent for the last three weeks was that the lawyer had called with a court date. Apparently the *DDD* had not responded to his summons (three in total, I believe &#8211; I&#8217;ve lost count) therefore he was placed in default, meaning we could proceed without him. <strong><em>And we did<\/em><\/strong>. Now, do I leave ya&#8217;ll in suspense for the next hmmm..three weeks? Ok, I won&#8217;t. I&#8217;d love to, but I won&#8217;t. Evil only extends so far, and with this news, I can&#8217;t be evil.<\/p>\n<p>In 21 days, or so..the divorce will be final, and I&#8217;ll be free. The girls, for that matter, will be free. Free from constant worry and free from abuse and assault. Why? I was granted sole custody, with visitation to be agreed upon. And since I won&#8217;t allow them to be put in harm&#8217;s way again, he can only see them under supervised visitation regulations. Not that he&#8217;ll care &#8211; I mean, come on. No phone calls even, for the last 4 1\/2 months &#8211; including their birthdays AND Christmas.<\/p>\n<p>Like I&#8217;ve said, he made his choice, and he&#8217;d rather have a hole-to-f**k, than his children.<\/p>\n<p>So, now I can say, with all seriousness and intent &#8211; we&#8217;re free. I may not be cheap, but I&#8217;m <strong><em>FREE<\/em><\/strong>!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Wow, I didn&#8217;t think it&#8217;d been this long since I&#8217;d updated the blog. I&#8217;m actually a bit shocked and appalled. Or something&#8230; Anyhoo, the one thing I was being MUM about in the posts just before I went silent for the last three weeks was that the lawyer had called with a court date. Apparently [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-660","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-main-sacred-triskele"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/sacredtriskele.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/660","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/sacredtriskele.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/sacredtriskele.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sacredtriskele.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sacredtriskele.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=660"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/sacredtriskele.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/660\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/sacredtriskele.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=660"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sacredtriskele.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=660"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/sacredtriskele.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=660"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}